Well, I bought him a card and it's sitting on the front seat of my car. It seems so inappropriate, really. Sending a birthday card to a 20 year-old man I don't know.
I'm in my mid-30's and this is my first blog. Having a daughter that I get to keep and raise over 14 years after relinquishing my son has healed me in many ways but led to more questions. Life is a journey and rather than stumbling down the path in the dark, I am now trying to get some illumination (Phantom of the Opera music suddenly fills my head!) and walk slower and more purposefully, without denial. We'll see how well I do ...